There is the saying that nice guys finish last? Do you agree with the statement? Personally, I think it is a copout statement. The reason that I am bringing this up is because a friend of mine recently told me that nice girls finish last as well. She is a single, successful woman.
“Being a nice girl has not served me well. Guys prefer bitchy women!”
What do you think? Do you think that guys prefer bitchy women over the nice girl? Do you think that as men we treat nice girls, like loyal fans? Are we euphoric about having a nice girl for a friend but when it comes to love we are looking for a warrior, a fighter, or the bad girl? A girl that will call us in the middle of the nice and tell us to show up in saran wrap, slap us in the middle an argument, curse us out for spending times with our friends, or pop on a chastity belt because we took them to Olive Garden on a Friday night instead of Ruth Chris?
“Men are looking for a woman that will treat them like ****. Put them on a dog leash and train them to submit. You are competitive creatures. If you cannot hunt down the ***** then you just want to use and abuse it. And throw it back!”
I will agree that men can be a bit competitive but so can our beautiful female counterparts. Competiveness is not gender bias. It is a way of life. It is the way that we all succeed. You need a minimum amount of competitiveness to survive.
I can only speak for myself. Even though I have seen some of my friends fall for that bitchy girl act, I rarely see a man with self esteem take it too far. The way that I see it, bitchy girls are like bullies. They beat up on you until you give in. I don’t want that kind of relationship when someone has to stomp on my manhood to keep me in check. I don’t like head games, sex deprivation, or anyone who feels that she has to check me. I am not property. I am another human being. Bring on the nice girls!
So what do you think about men? Do we prefer bitchy women? And do you think that nice girls finish last?