Forced Celibacy, Cheating Really Man!
Everyone knows that I can be a little outspoken about what women should be doing in relationships. I know that it can anger some of you beautiful women out there. But just for the record, I am the same way with my bros.
Last weekend, I was hanging out with some of my boys and the subject of women came up. I know no surprise. You are right; we love to talk about the women in our lives or the women that we would like in our lives. The subject of cheating came up. Folks, I am a liberal boy so I do believe in to each as own for the most part. But………..
Let’s discuss cheating!
My bro has been having a relationship with someone in his office for over six months. It is true, I don’t live in his household so I don’t know his wife outside an occasional social event here and there but I don’t feel that she deserves to be cheated on.
“Man that is just wrong?”
“I am not getting it at home that much anymore. She is always too tired. She has a paper due. The kids need this. I was up in the middle of the night doing this. When is my time? I did not sign up for celibacy and I feel that I am being forced into it a little more each day.”
“Forced Celibacy? Is that the only excuse you can come up with for being an idiot and risking your family?”
I cannot tell you what else I was said to him because I have to keep my words g-rated but I will tell you that I think that is a crock of crap. No person deserves to be cheated on regardless.
In my younger days, I will admit that I was a dog at times and I have cheated on a girlfriend or two but a marriage that is sacred. Cheating is not an option. In a long term relationship once you are in your late 20s and you are smart enough to stop thinking with the stupid head and use the one at the top of your body, YOU SHOULD NOT CHEAT. It is not right! Cheating is a cop out for being too weak to deal with your issues head on.
Do you know what cheating does to a woman?
It breaks her down. It makes her question her self-worth; it destroys her ability to trust us. It makes men like me work a little harder to gain trust. It makes them bitter and revengeful.
Now for those of you who are saying women cheat as well. You are right just as I have cheated. I have been cheated on and it did not feel great.
What I have learned from my years on Earth, if I get to a point where cheating is the only option that I can think of, I get out of the situation. It is wrong of me to be responsible for the demise of someone else because I could not keep my willy in my pants outside of our relationship.
What is your opinion on cheating? Acceptable behavior if you are not getting it at home? Or is it a “hell no” you need to let your hands do the walking if you just got to work out that magical moment until you and your mate can straighten it?